Part One: Laying the Groundwork
Chapter 1: Introduction to Helping
Contexts of Helping: A Very Brief History
What Helping Is About
Challenges for the Helping Professions
The Professional Curriculum
Moving From Smart to Wise: Managing the Shadow Side of Helping
Chapter 2: Overview of the Helping Model
Rational Problem Solving and Its Limitations
The Skilled Helper Model: A Problem Management/ Opportunity Development Approach to Helping
Stage I: The Current Picture—“Whats Going On?”—Help Clients Clarify the Key Issues Calling for Change
Stage II: The Preferred Picture—“What Do I Want?”— Help Clients Identify, Choose, and Shape Problem- Managing Goals
Stage III: The Way Forward—“How Do I Get What I Need or Want?”—Help Clients Develop Strategies and Plans for Accomplishing Goals
The Action Arrow—“How Do I Make It All Happen?”— Help Clients Implement Their Plans
“How Are We Doing?”—Ongoing Evaluation of the Helping Process
Flexibility in the Use of the Model
Problem Management: A Human Universal
Using the Model as a “Browser”: The Search for Best Practice
Understanding and Dealing With the Shadow Side of Helping Models
Chapter 3: The Helping Relationship: Values in Action
The Helping Relationship
The Relationship as a Working Alliance
The Values That Drive the Helping Relationship
Values and Ethics
Values, Diversity, and Multiculturalism
A Working Charter: The Client-Helper Contract
Shadow-Side Realities in the Helping Relationship
Part Two: The Therapeutic Dialogue
Chapter 4: Communication: The Skills of Tuning in and Actively Listening to Clients
The Importance of Dialogue in Helping
I. Visibly Tuning In: The Importance of Empathic Presence
II. Active Listening: The Foundation of Understanding
Processing What You Hear: The Thoughtful Search for Meaning
Listening to Oneself: The Helpers Internal Conversation
The Shadow Side of Listening to Clients
The Shadow Side of Communication Skills—Part 1
Chapter 5: Communicating Empathy: Working Hard at Understanding Clients
The Three Dimensions of Responding Skills: Perceptiveness, Know-How, and Assertiveness
Sharing Empathic Highlights: Communicating Understanding to Clients
Principles for Sharing Empathic Highlights
Tactics for Communicating Highlights
The Shadow Side of Sharing Empathic Highlights
The Importance of Empathic Relationships
Chapter 6: The Art of Probing and Summarizing
The Art of Probing
The Art of Summarizing: Providing Focus and Direction
The Shadow Side of Communication Skills—Part 2
Chapter 7: Helping Clients Challenge Themselves
Challenge: The Basic Concept
Blind Spots
Linking Challenge to Action
The Shadow Side of Challenging
Chapter 8: Challenging Skills and the Wisdom to Use Them Well
Specific Challenging Skills
From Smart to Wise: Guidelines for Effective Challenging
Linking Challenge to Action
Challenge and the Shadow Side of Helpers
Chapter 9: Helping Difficult Clients Move Forward: Reluctance, Resistance, and Resilience
Difficult Clients: Reluctance and Resistance
Reluctance: Misgivings about Change
Resistance: Reacting to Coercion
The Role of Psychological Defenses in Reluctance and Resistance
Principles for Managing Reluctance and Resistance
Help Clients Tap Into Their Resilience
Part Three: The Stages and Tasks of the Helping Model
Chapter 10: Stage I: Help Clients Tell Their Stories
An Introduction to Stage I
Task 1: Help Clients Tell Their Stories—“What Are My Concerns?”
Task 2: Help Clients Develop New Perspectives and Reframe Their Stories—“What Am I Overlooking or Avoiding?”
Task 3: Help Clients Work on Issues That Make a Difference—“What Problems, if Managed, Will Help Me Most?”
Is Stage I Sometimes Enough?
Chapter 11: Introduction to Stages II and III: Decisions, Goals, and Plans
Help Clients Become More Effective Decision Makers
Solution-Focused Helping
Help Clients Discover and Use Their Power Through Goal Setting
Chapter 12: Stage II: Help Clients Set Viable Goals
The Three Tasks of Stage II
Task 1: Help Clients Discover Possibilities for a Better Future—“How Can My Life Be Better?”
Skills for Identifying Possibilities for a Better Future
Task 2: Help Clients Move From Possibilities to Choices—“What Solutions Are Best for Me?”
Task 3: Help Clients Commit Themselves—“What Am I Willing to Pay for What I Want?”
Stage II and Action
The Shadow Side of Goal Setting
Chapter 13: Stage III: Help Clients Develop Strategies and Plans to Accomplish Their Goals
Introduction to Stage III
Task 1: Help Clients Develop Strategies for Accomplishing Their Goals
Task 2: Help Clients Choose Best-Fit Strategies
Task 3: Help Clients Make Plans
Part Four: The Action Arrow: Making It All Happen
Chapter 14: Getting There: Help Clients Implement Their Change Programs—“How Do I Make It All Happen?”
Help Clients Move From Planning to Action
Getting Along Without a Helper: Developing Social Networks for Support and Challenge
The Shadow Side of Implementing Change
Resilience Revisited: Peoples Ability to Hold Themselves Together, Bounce Back, and Grow
Choosing Not to Change
References
Name Index
Subject Index